Prices in pounds, dollars and more
VIP when you want more, priced in full
Every plan is here in full, and VIP billing never shows the site name.
Every member starts on Classic. A Classic account lets you build a profile, browse members, get daily matches, send a limited number of messages a day and reply to anyone on a paid plan. VIP, for unlimited messaging and advanced search, starts at £14.99 for a week, or $19.99 in US dollars. A year of VIP is one payment of £155.91 (or $260.19 in US dollars) and does not renew.
The longer you stay, the less you pay
Both levels come in five lengths, and in pounds the longer the plan, the less it costs each month.
| Length | VIP | VIP Plus |
|---|---|---|
| 1 week | £14.99Renews each week | £15.99Renews each week |
| 1 month | £29.96Renews each month | £34.24Renews each month |
| 3 months | £64.16£21.39 a month, renews every 3 months | £77.01£25.67 a month, renews every 3 months |
| 6 months | £102.60£17.10 a month, renews every 6 months | £128.31£21.39 a month, renews every 6 months |
| 12 months | £155.91£12.81 a month, one payment, no renewal | £208.05£17.34 a month, one payment, no renewal |
Paying in US dollars or euros
The same plans in US dollars, with the euro price underneath. The site also charges in other currencies, Canadian, Australian and New Zealand dollars among them.
| Length | VIP | VIP Plus |
|---|---|---|
| 1 week | $19.99€16.99 | $22.99€17.99 |
| 1 month | $42.81€34.24 | $51.39€38.53 |
| 3 months | $102.73€77.01 | $128.44€89.87 |
| 6 months | $128.31€102.60 | $154.03€128.31 |
| 12 months | $260.19€155.91, no renewal | $338.41€208.05, no renewal |
Find the level that suits how you date
Classic account
A full profile with photos and the interests that matter here, such as trans woman, crossdresser, en femme or TS-friendly. You can browse, get daily match suggestions, send a limited number of messages a day, and answer any VIP or VIP Plus member who writes first. There is a free ID check (blue tick) on every level. Rather not upload a document? There is a live video check with a moderator, no documents needed.
VIP
Write to as many people as you like, whenever you like. VIP opens the advanced search filters, so you can look for someone in a particular city, within a set distance, or open to the same things you are. You see everyone who has liked your profile, can rewind a profile you passed on, join the members' chat rooms and start a private group chat for up to 50 people.
VIP Plus
Everything in VIP, plus a place at the top of other members' daily suggestions, priority for your messages and likes, and a pool of exclusive matches. Profile boosts and Super Match messages are paid extras you can add. The features page lists each level in full.
Billing that keeps your secret
Discretion matters on a site like this, so the site name does not appear on your bank statement when you pay for VIP.
Anything shorter than a year rolls on at the same price until you stop it. If you only want VIP for a short spell, set a reminder for the day before it renews. A twelve-month plan is a single payment that lapses by itself when the year is up, so there is nothing to cancel.
Start on Classic. Fill in your profile, add a photo and say what you are after. When the daily message allowance starts to feel tight, that is the moment to go VIP. Weighing us up against Tinder, Grindr, Taimi or TransDate? The comparisons put us side by side.
No surprises when you pay
What do I get without VIP?
A Classic account includes a profile, browsing, daily matches, a limited number of messages a day and replies to paid members. VIP and VIP Plus are optional.
What will show on my bank statement?
Not the site name. VIP payments are billed discreetly, so My Transgender Secret does not appear on your statement.
Do plans renew automatically?
Weekly, monthly, three-month and six-month plans renew at the same price until you cancel. Twelve-month plans are paid once and lapse by themselves.
What is the cheapest way to try VIP?
A single week of VIP is £14.99, or $19.99 in US dollars; cancel before it rolls over if you only want a taste. If you know you will stay, twelve months of VIP is £155.91 (or $260.19) paid once.
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