Trans Dating App: Meet Trans Singles on Your Phone
No app store needed, and nothing on your phone with our name on it unless you put it there.
My Transgender Secret works as a trans dating app straight from your phone's browser. Open the site, join, and add it to your home screen: it then opens like any other app, with your matches and messages a tap away. You never need an app store, which keeps it discreet.
No app store, no awkward questions
We want to keep your online fun discreet. An app store download leaves a trace in your purchase history and an icon on your screen. A web app does neither unless you choose to save the shortcut, and on an iPhone you can rename it as you save it.
It also means the site works the same on an iPhone, an Android phone, a tablet or a laptop. Start a conversation on the bus, carry it on at your desk at lunch, and finish it on the sofa, all on one account.
Put it on your home screen in a minute
Once you have joined, open the site in Safari on an iPhone, tap the share button and choose Add to Home Screen. On Android, open it in Chrome, tap the three dots and choose Add to Home screen or Install app. That is it: from then on it sits on your home screen and opens with one tap.
Transgender dating made easy
Here nobody has to explain themselves: the site is made for meeting trans women and crossdressers, and your profile does the talking. Pick interests such as Transwoman, Crossdress, en Femme, TS-Friendly or Transfan, and say whether you want regular dates, friendship or something casual.
- Daily matches chosen around age, distance, gender and what you are looking for.
- Private messages, with a limited number each day on Classic and unlimited on VIP.
- Chat rooms and group chats for VIP members, for when you would rather chat than date.
- A free ID check (blue tick), plus a live video check with a moderator, no documents needed: handy for spotting who is genuine before you reply.
- City and distance filters for VIP members, so you find people you could actually meet.
See the full list on the features page, or how we stack up against Tinder, Grindr and Taimi.
Have fun wherever you go
Nearly 15,000 people have a profile, from the UK and Ireland to the USA, Canada, Australia and New Zealand. Most members are men, more than 1,800 chose CD/TRANS when they signed up, and there are more than 500 women and more than 150 couples too. In the UK, the biggest groups are in London, Greater Manchester and the West Midlands; see who is near you.
Private on your phone and off it
Nobody sees your real name or email, other members see only the town you are nearest to, and sensitive photos are blurred until someone chooses to look. If you pay for VIP, the site name does not appear on your bank statement. You can block anyone instantly. We will keep your secret if you can, and our safety page has the details.
Quick answers before you tap join
Is there a My Transgender Secret app?
Yes, as a web app. It runs in your phone's browser and you can add it to your home screen so it opens like any other app. You do not need to download anything from an app store.
Does it work on iPhone and Android?
Yes. It works in Safari on iPhone and iPad, in Chrome and other browsers on Android, and on any computer.
What is the best trans dating app?
It depends what you want. My Transgender Secret is made for trans dating and runs in any browser, wherever you live. Our guide Is there a dating app for trans people? names the options.
Your next date could start on your phone tonight
Join in your browser, save it to your home screen, and say hello.
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