Trans Hookups: Discreet Fun with Trans Singles and Admirers
Say you are up for something casual, and let your profile do the flirting.
My Transgender Secret is an adult site for trans singles and admirers, and casual fun is welcome here. Say on your profile that you are open to something casual and nobody has to guess. VIP members can even filter by what people are open to.
Honest about what you want
Being upfront saves everyone time. Say what you are after on your profile and again in your first message. Nobody here has to wonder whether you are into trans dating: that is what the site is for.
Every member says who they are when they join (male, female, couple or CD/TRANS) and who they are looking for, and profiles can show what someone is open to, from a one-off hookup to regular meets. Read a profile before you message, match what they have asked for, and you will find the conversation goes a lot further.
Flirty, never pushy
Good manners are sexy. Be clear, polite and respectful from the first message, and ask before you get explicit. Use the name and pronouns she goes by. Do not open with questions about her body or her transition; if she wants to share, she will. And if someone says no, or stops replying, take it gracefully and move on.
For trans members: you set the pace. Block anyone who pushes, and report anyone who is abusive. Your profile can say exactly what you are and are not into.
Discreet from start to finish
We will keep your secret if you can, and privacy is built in. Members go by usernames; real names and email addresses stay private. Your profile gives your nearest town, never your address. Explicit photos are blurred until the other person chooses to see them. If you pay for VIP, your bank statement does not show the site name.
The site runs in your phone's browser, so there is no app icon to explain; see using it on your phone.
Trans hookups near you
Casual usually means local. Set your nearest town, search your area or the next city along, and see who is within reach. VIP members can narrow the search to a particular place or a tighter radius, and see everyone who has already liked them, which saves a lot of time. Our trans dating near me page explains local search in more detail.
Have fun, stay safe
Talk on the site first, look for the blue tick that comes with a free ID check, and meet somewhere public before going anywhere private. Tell a friend where you will be. Never send money to anyone you have met online, and be wary of anyone who wants to move to WhatsApp straight away; the site warns you when that happens because it is a common scam. More on our safety page.
Straight answers, no awkwardness
Is My Transgender Secret a hookup site?
Yes. It is an adult trans dating site where hookups, casual dates and regular meets all sit side by side. You say what you want on your profile, and your daily matches take it into account.
Is it discreet?
Yes. You go by a username, your profile shows only your nearest town, explicit photos are blurred until someone chooses to look, and if you go VIP, the site name stays off your bank statement.
Who can join?
Anyone aged 18 or over can join, whether you are trans, crossdress or non-binary, or want to meet someone who is.
Arrange fun, discreet trans meets
Make your profile, be upfront about what you are after, and say hello.
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