Sydney, Melbourne, Brisbane, Perth and Adelaide
Trans Dating Australia: Discreet Dates with Trans Singles
More than 1,100 members in Australia, and more than 300 over the Tasman in New Zealand.
My Transgender Secret has more than 1,100 members in Australia, and more than three in four of them live in New South Wales, Victoria or Queensland. It is a flirty, discreet place for trans singles and admirers to get together.
New South Wales and Victoria lead the way
New South Wales has the most members, more than 380, followed by Victoria with more than 250 and Queensland with more than 200. Western Australia and South Australia have more than 90 each. There are members in all five mainland state capitals, and New South Wales and Victoria also have the most CD/TRANS members.
The capitals are far apart. Distance is one of the things your daily matches weigh up, and VIP members can filter by city and distance, handy when you fancy a trip. Trans dating near me has tips for finding people close by.
Mostly 25 to 44, with plenty older
More than half of Australian members are 25 to 44. The biggest age group is 35 to 44, close to three in ten, and more than one in four is 25 to 34, a bigger share than in Canada or the UK. Nearly one in five is 45 to 54, about one in ten is 55 to 64, and more than one in seven is 65 or over.
Members in Australia by age.
About eight in ten members here are men. More than 150 chose CD/TRANS at sign-up, the option for trans and crossdressing members. That is nearly one in seven, higher than in the UK or Canada.
Big nights out, from Oxford Street to the Valley
In Sydney, Oxford Street in Darlinghurst is lined with the city's biggest choice of LGBTQIA+ bars and clubs, and the Mardi Gras parade travels along it each year in late February or early March. King Street in Newtown is Sydney's other rainbow strip, with a more alternative feel. Melbourne's alternative queer scene centres on neighbouring Fitzroy and Collingwood, and the Midsumma festival fills three weeks of January and February. Brisbane's LGBTQIA+ bars and clubs are in Fortitude Valley, with queer-friendly New Farm nearby, and Brisbane Pride's rally gathers in the Valley before marching to New Farm Park.
For a confidential chat with LGBTIQ+ peers, QLife offers anonymous support at no cost by phone and webchat to people anywhere in Australia.
Over the Tasman: New Zealand members
More than 300 members live in New Zealand. The Auckland region has the most, followed by Canterbury and Wellington, and Kiwi members can pay in New Zealand dollars. Karangahape Road, K Road to locals, is the home of Auckland's rainbow community, and OutLine Aotearoa runs a peer support line and online chat for rainbow New Zealanders.
Keep it between the two of you
Nobody here sees your real name or email: you pick a username, and your profile shows the nearest town or city, never your address. Sensitive photos are blurred with a warning, every upload is checked by software and by people, and support is there around the clock by chat and messaging. A free ID check gives you a blue tick. The safety page has the rest.
VIP billing keeps the site name off your bank statement. On your phone, save My Transgender Secret to your home screen from the browser and it behaves like an app; the trans dating app page has the steps.
Asked by Australians and Kiwis
How many members are in Australia?
Australia has more than 1,100 members, with the biggest groups in New South Wales, Victoria and Queensland.
Can I pay in Australian dollars?
Yes. Australian members can pay in Australian dollars, and members in New Zealand can pay in New Zealand dollars. Every plan is on the pricing page.
Is the site open to New Zealanders?
Yes. More than 300 members live in New Zealand, and the Auckland region has the most of them.
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