TransDate or My Transgender Secret: know where you are signing up

TransDate is an adult website for meeting trans women, with hookups, webcams and chat rooms up front. When we followed its join links on 13 October 2026, both took us to the join page of AdultFriendFinder, an adult site for casual dating, chat and member videos. My Transgender Secret is a trans dating site in its own right: you join here, and your profile lives here.

Checked 13 October 2026

Compared on	My Transgender Secret	TransDate
Who it is for	Trans people, crossdressers and their admirers, 18+, for dates, friendship or casual fun	Meeting trans women, with hookups, webcams and kink up front
Run by	Online since 2022, built on the HubPeople dating platform	No operator named on its homepage
Where you join	On this site	Its join links led to AdultFriendFinder's join page
Where it runs	Browser, or a shortcut on your home screen	In a browser
Proving you are real	Free ID check (blue tick), alongside a live video check with a moderator	No checks described on its homepage

What TransDate is

TransDate presents itself as a trans dating site for meeting transgender women, and it is frank about being an adult site: its homepage talks about local hookups, crossdressers, sissies, doms and subs, live webcams and chat rooms. For someone who wants exactly that, it is upfront about the offer.

It is easy to mix up with other sites that have similar names, such as My Transgender Date and TransgenderDate, which are separate sites. If you searched for "trans date", it is worth checking which one you have landed on.

What happens when you join

TransDate's homepage does not name the company behind it. When we clicked its join links on 13 October 2026, both took us to AdultFriendFinder's own join page, with a referral code added to the address. So the account you would create sits on AdultFriendFinder, not on TransDate itself. That may be fine for you, but it is better to know before you hand over an email address.

What My Transgender Secret offers

My Transgender Secret is a site of its own, online since 2022 and built on the HubPeople dating platform. More than 1,800 of its members joined as trans or crossdressing, and most of the rest are men. Your profile and your daily matches take in what you are after, from casual fun to friendship or seeing someone regularly.

Discretion runs through it: members use usernames, nobody sees more than your nearest town, explicit photos sit behind a blur and a warning, and VIP billing leaves the site name off your statement. Verifying is your choice, by free ID check (blue tick) or by a live video check with a moderator, and every photo, video and message is screened when it is uploaded. Support is on hand around the clock. See how we keep members safe and whether we are legit.

When TransDate may suit you better

If webcams and adult chat are what you are after, and you are happy for your account to sit on AdultFriendFinder, TransDate's route may give you that. If you would rather join a trans dating site directly, where members who pass a free ID check carry a blue tick, start here.